“Are You Ready To MASTER THE WORLD’S MOST VALUABLE SKILLS, Become A Certified Trainer, And Increase Your Income Teaching People The Art of Verbal Self Defense?”

Dr. Daniel Scott’s

VERBAL DEFENSE TACTICS

INSTRUCTOR CERTIFICATION BOOT CAMP

A Follow-up Two-Day Seminar to Become a Qualified Verbal Self Defense Instructor

Take your verbal self defense training to the next level – learn to give these valuable skills back to the world in the form of public workshops, corporate seminars, private consulting or simply through in-house training within your own office or organization …

… come … learn … grow … and share!

That is the motto of the

Verbal Defense Tactics Instructor Certification Boot Camp!

This ADVANCED SEMINAR is for anyone who wants to take the skills you learned in Verbal Defense Tactics 101 and learn the most effective ways of teaching those skills to others.

The Verbal Defense Tactics INSTRUCTOR CERTIFICAITON BOOT CAMP is a 2-day training seminar filled with everything you need to know in order to teach the skills of verbal self defense efficiently and effectively to anyone …

… and how to turn those skills into an extra source of income or valuable resource for your business or organization!

By the end you will have all the knowledge, resources, materials and training necessary to start offering Verbal Self Defense classes and consulting the very next day!

LEARN ALL THE SKILLS NECESSARY TO BECOME A VERBAL SELF DEFENSE MASTER IN THIS ADVANCED TRAINING COURSE!

If you aren’t sure that you completely know what Verbal Self Defense training is all about …

… then I recommend going over to the page outlining Verbal Defense Tactics 101: Primary Skills Training, which is my starter seminar where you learn all the basic skills you need to move onto this course.

For a complete explanation and details about the starter seminar you can [CLICK HERE].

However, for everyone who is already planning on attending the Verbal Defense Tactics 101 training (or have done so in the past) …

… this additional power-packed advanced training is designed specifically for you – so keep reading!

As you know …

‘VERBAL DEFENSE TACTICS’ GIVES YOU A POWERFUL ADVANTAGE no matter when and where you use it …

… because it’s a fact that these are difficult times … and people all around us are more short tempered and stressed than ever before …

So, it is beneficial for you because …

WORKPLACE BULLYING IS 200% MORE PREVALENT THAN SEXUAL HARASSMENT

… which translates into a HUGE PROFIT for YOU doing consulting and workshops for Verbal Self Defense to stop workplace bully!

However, for you to capitalize on this opportunity you need to have the necessary skills and abilities to effectively teach Verbal Self Defense to others.

And that is what my Verbal Defense Tactics Instructor Certification Boot Camp is specifically designed to give you!

It takes everything you learned in the first course and shows you how to install the primary verbal self defense skills in other people … so that you can know with certainty that your students are learning exactly what they need.

Let me give you a more in-depth explanation of what you’ll learn in the Verbal Defense Tactics Instructor Certification Boot Camp … including the outcomes you can expect to leave with as a result of attending this training (which, by the way, is scheduled to run immediately after the Verbal Defense Tactics 101 seminar for anyone who wants to get as much training as possible in just one trip — making the most of your precious time and travel investment!) …

TRAINING OUTCOMES:

Going through the 2-days of this verbal self defense instructor training …

• Imagine having the ability to deal with difficult class participants by taking you basic verbal self defense skills up to the next level — using “Behavioral Persuasion” training.

• Imagine being able to effectively teach to anyone by knowing how to recognize and understand the best way to teach for any type of learning styles which you might face.

• Imagine using this opportunity to practice teaching the material in a safe learning environment where you can get the feedback you need to be confident in your new skills as an instructor.

• Imagine learning from the experiences of other facilitators on what to do and what not to do for the best way to develop your own verbal self defense consulting business.

• Imagine leaving this training seminar with templates for workshop proposals, all the necessary handouts and materials along with complete class outlines — everything you need to start teaching verbal self defense the very next day!

AS A VERBAL SELF DEFENSE INSTRUCTOR YOU CAN GIVE PEOPLE THE TOOLS TO DEAL WITH SERIAL BULLIES …

“Krystal, 22, was working as a receptionist at an Alberta brokerage firm when she came under the fire of serial bully.

Her bully introduced her as ‘the stupid receptionist,’ called her a ‘dumb blond’ (Krystal subsequently dyed her hair brown), sabotaged her reputation by gossiping about her, and even descended into schoolyard silliness. When the bully brought chocolates in for the staff, she told Krystal the treats were for everyone but her.

Krystal discovered the company suffered from rapid turnover as victims vacated the workplace in search of safer pastures.

Krystal had entered the orbit of a serial bully. Workplace bullies typically have a favorite victim, and when that victim leaves, they find another, building a culture of bullying in the workplace.”

Joanne Hatherly, Journalist

Canwest News Service, November 6, 2006

THE TRAINING SEMINAR AGENDA:

… AND, here are the specific topics we cover during the 2-day seminar in order to give instructors the skills you need to be masters of verbal self defense …

• Techniques of Behavioral Persuasion;

• The process of preparing your own workshops and corporate trainings — including objectives, materials and exercises;

• Basic graphic facilitation — adding doodles and pictures for the visual learners;

• Proper methods for teaching using stories and metaphors;

• Components of a verbal self defense business — such as proposals, memos of understanding, fees, etc.;

• Techniques and strategies for dealing with difficult participants;

• The foundation of how to appropriately utilize exercises for practice versus learning;

• Making deeper connections to personal values for students;

• Advanced language patterns to teach the unconscious mind directly;

• Circumventing conscious resistance to the foundational elements of verbal self defense;

• Recognizing, understanding and effectively utilizing the mental representational learning systems of students;

• Controlling your trainer state and its application to managing group rapport;

• Basic psycho-geography and how to use it for your advantage;

• Comparing teaching styles of deduction versus induction and how to choose when to use one over the other;

Wow! … as you can see, a ton of information is covered in the 2-days.

It seems obvious that this training is an phenomenal value and gives you the most bang for your travel buck!

Here are some more situations

YOUR VERBAL SELF DEFENSE STUDENTS

will be capable of dealing with …

AS A VERBAL SELF DEFENSE INSTRUCTOR YOU CAN GIVE PEOPLE THE TOOLS TO DEAL WITH FEAR OF FUTURE ABUSE …

“Emotional abuse is so hard, because no one seems to take it seriously. Like, if he didn’t hit you, then you shouldn’t be complaining. [...]

‘I tried to leave him dozens of times, and somehow I would end up back with him. It was so hard.

It’s been two years now, but I still get flashbacks to how it felt. How he would manipulate me into to begging to be with him, when I had started out trying to dump him. Months and months of this. It was such an easy trap to fall into, and I’m so glad it’s over and I’m so glad I’m with someone who treats me right now!”

By [username] Euterpe

Experience Project, [Online: www.ExperienceProject.com]

AS A VERBAL SELF DEFENSE INSTRUCTOR YOU CAN GIVE PEOPLE THE TOOLS TO DEAL WITH AN ABUSIVE SPOUSE …

“[...] I’ve been married three years and have a six month old baby. I feel so confused about what I should do. I am miserable because my husband does not ever talk to me or spend time with me or have a physical relationship with me. He calls me names & is angry because I don’t feel like exercising because he wants me to lose weight because I’m too fat (which is true). I said to him I don’t call you disgusting so why do you look at me like that. He says because I am disgusting and he is not. He gets mad when I eat.

I’m upset my husband was mad at me. My baby was screaming and he would not let me hold her. I tried to reach out to her to comfort her and he pushed me away hurting my arm. I felt defeated and went and cried.

My husband said that because I’m on depression medication if I leave he will tell the court I am mentally unfit to care for my child and that I try to hit her. It is not true. [...]

I feel messed up because of him. I love him but he needs to stop doing what he is doing. [...]“

By [username] newmum

Experience Project, [Online: www.ExperienceProject.com]

And here is a bit more information about me …

ABOUT YOUR TRAINER: DANIEL SCOTT, Ph.D.

Neuro Linguistic Programming Trainer, Consultant & Behavior Modification Coach

You might be asking what my story is and how I came to be an expert in verbal self defense … and where it all came from …

Well, for a further explanation I’ll direct you back to the description on the Verbal Defense Tactics 101 page … I put a lot more information there.

For a quick summarization …

I have dedicated my life to being a trainer in the field of Neuro Linguistic Programming (the science of human behavior) … which I’ve been working in for almost a decade, specializing in Verbal Defense Tactics since 2004 … and this is my PASSION!

… and I totally love teaching this seminar because it is my desire to give the skills of verbal self defense to everyone, everywhere — doing my part to create a world to which we all want to belong! –

I am determined to do whatever it takes in order to give this amazing new tool for self care to the world. The most significant step in accomplishing this goal will be my soon-to-be published book,

6 STEPS FOR VERBAL SELF DEFENSE TO STOP WORKPLACE BULLYING; Professional Tools to Beat the Office Bully.

With so many news reports and magazine articles constantly assert that one of the foremost problems facing business today is workplace bullying and verbal abuse – with economic strife looming over everyone, the concern about hostile working environments is on the rise – here are only a few organizations I’ve had the pleasure of successfully teaching these Verbal Defense Tactics for …

Nestle Purina

Kardel Industries

Cornerstone Properties

Saanich Parks and Recreation

Esquimalt Parks and Recreation

Canadian Union of Public Employees (Victoria)

Greater Victoria Teachers Association

Shoreline Community School

Juan de Fuca Parks and Recreation

The Esquimalt Inn

These days I’m regularly being referred to as an Expert in the fields of Verbal Self Defense & Tactical Communication for Behavioral Persuasion.

My training, background and qualifications aside – I’m also a person … who loves his job! …

… this has become my life’s passion – it’s what I live to do! …

… and you will see that energy, attitude and enjoyment in every training course I teach!

This is the source of everything that my entire business is built upon … it’s the element that makes my transformational training seminars stand out for the participants …

… those personality traits alone will make the experience memorable – and still there is more …

… when I say transformational training, that’s exactly what you get – transformation of old behaviors into new and more useful ones … whatever you do now to deal with difficult people – it will be even more effective by the end of these 2 days.

The tools and techniques of NLP have given me the ability to teach to any style of learning …

And this all leads back to why …

… I invite you to come to beautiful Victoria, British Columbia …

… NOW …

… while there are still spaces available …

…so you can get in on my other seminar (VERBAL DEFENSE TACTICS 101) and this training for VERBAL DEFENSE TACTICS INSTRUCTOR CERTIFICATION BOOT CAMP!

AS A VERBAL SELF DEFENSE INSTRUCTOR YOU CAN GIVE PEOPLE THE TOOLS TO DEAL WITH ABUSIVE FATHERS …

“My dad instilled in me that I was worthless at a young age. He yelled at me for having a hole in my sock one time. I wasn’t allowed to cry when I was a kid because he would open the closet and threaten to get his belt out. I learned from that to keep my emotions inside and show nothing because that was weakness, now I come off as rude or a ‘b-i-t-c-h’ if you will. I don’t trust easily because of him.

He always called me a failure and says that I’ll never amount to anything. Both of my parents were invalidators. They would tell me that I wasn’t going to win or get on the team anyway so why even try. I learned never to be proud of myself or to feel special because my parents would crush any feelings of that. They would tell me to stop being selfish and that everyone can do what I do.

I have borderline personality disorder and my mom doesn’t think I need to go to the doctor and just says, ‘Everyone feels that way, welcome to the world.’ When I get nervous my body does something weird, it convulses. I can’t control them. It happens a lot and I told my mom that I would like to see a doctor about them and she said that she would think about it … it’s been two weeks since and she has forgot completely.

My mom had a boyfriend when I was in kindergarten and he was abusive to my mom and I. He would tell me to shut my mouth on a regular basis and he threatened my mom a bunch of times. He almost hit me one time but missed, getting my hair instead.

In my junior year of high school my mom got breast cancer . She was also going through menopause. She would come home, get drunk, and take her anger out on me by screaming at me how much of a worthless failure I was and how stupid and fat I was. She said I was a pathetic loser and I would never amount to anything. Whenever I do something I sometimes say to myself, ‘I am going to get in so much trouble for this’ and I can see her face as she gets angry and is about to yell.

I saw my dad on the weekends at church. He would take me into the pastor’s office where no one could hear him (because he was one of those guys that everybody loved) and scream the usual at me: you’re stupid, a failure, ugly, never going to amount to anything, worthless … I tried to tell the church elders but they just laughed and said that my dad would never do that. [...]“

By [username] cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal

Experience Project, [Online: www.ExperienceProject.com]

With all of who and what I stand for, combined with all the information that has been brought together into this single training seminar, it’s no wonder I am confident in saying …

I AM COMMITTED to be the supportive and caring trainer who will teach you everything I know … and continue TO OFFER WHATEVER HELP I CAN EVEN AFTER THE COURSE IS OVER!

… and YOU WILL get something useful out of this seminar!

I SEROUSLY want to get this information out to the world … to give people the power to build better lives for themselves and the people around them … that means I want –

… participants who will take these skills and work hard to give others the ability to verbally defend themselves! (… and possibly make a little extra money doing it!)

… participants who will carry on building upon everything I give them to make the skills the teach even more effective than every before!

… participants who are enthusiastic about doing good helping the people in their organization, community, country and world be able to take care of their own mental and emotional well being!

… and hopefully that person is YOU!

To help avoid making this another obscenely long page — (you know what I mean if you’ve browsed the Verbal Defense Tactics 101 page) — let’s jump to the important questions …

ANSWERS TO OTHER FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS ABOUT ATTENDING THE VERBAL DEFENSE TACTICS BOOT CAMP

Q. Do You Want a Lot of Attendees?

A. No. My intention behind limiting the seminar to 10 participants is to ensure as much individual attention as possible in a comfortable, relaxed learning environment … this way you get lots of opportunity to have direct interaction with me as the trainer while still having the chance to meet all the other people at the course.

… the downside is that training programs, with so few spots – always sell out … sometimes far in advance of the date. So with the low participant numbers be sure to register early to avoid disappointment!

Q. Who Comes to This Kind of Seminar? What Are the Other Participants Like?

A. People just like YOU. Often they’re someone who has faced situations in the past that left them feeling bad & thinking over and over again, “I should have said …” – people who wish they had more options for dealing with conflict in their life … either in their personal life or on the job … perhaps with family and friends or customers and colleagues.

Sometimes they’re a person who knows someone that is dealing with abusive people (or one particular abusive person) on a regular basis and they want to learn something that could help them deal.

In either case they come from all walks of life … university professors, public speakers & facilitators, teachers & principles, government workers & social workers, non-profit volunteers, lawyers & accountants, mediators, property managers, security officers … the list goes on and on – anyone who has to deal with people that just rub them the wrong way.

The most awesome part is where the participants come from … although most will come from North America (United States, Canada and Mexico) … people from all over the world will make the journey to attend this amazing seminar … from places like the United Kingdom, Denmark, Netherlands, Austria, Bulgaria, Italy, Norway, South Africa … you have no idea who you will meet or where they might be from!

Q. Where Is This Training Seminar Held and How Do I Get There?

A. A big part of the attraction of these seminars is that they are held in beautiful Victoria, British Columbia, Canada … a great little city full of world class amenities with a focus on tourism …

To get here … the nearest airport is the Victoria International Airport (www.victoriaairport.com) … alternatively a lot of people travel to the city of Vancouver on the mainland for their vacation, which has the Vancouver International Airport (www.yvr.ca) and then take the short ferry ride to Victoria (www.bcferries.com) …

… Victoria is home to number of art galleries, exhibits and studios. You can walk from gallery to gallery in Victoria’s downtown core or drive the country roads to visit artisans’ studios. Paintings, prints, sculptures in glass, wood and pottery can all be found and the traditional art of the First Nations peoples is widespread all over the Island …

… host to everything from museums and art galleries to castles, landmarks, gardens and zoos – Victoria’s attractions invite visitors into a world of history, entertainment and colour …

… anyone with a taste for music – all styles of music fill local concert halls, cathedrals, nightclubs and pubs …

… younger visitors will delight in discovering local marine life, bugs, butterflies and farm animals – and they can assist in carving a native totem pole or dig for minerals in a scratch patch …

… for the whole family, recreation centres, swimming pools, waterslides and mini-golf are also favourite attractions in the city.

… As soon as you register you’ll receive the logistics for the course – including travel options, driving directions (a ferry is one way to get here, of by air travel) and recommended accommodations (whatever your tastes, preferences and budget) …

In the meantime, for a wealth of additional info you can visit these websites:

www.tourismvictoria.com

www.greatervictoria.com

www.vancouverisland.com

www.travel.bc.ca

www.victoria-bc.com

Q. When Is the Next Verbal Defense Tactics Instructor Certification Boot Camp? And If I Can’t Make That, When Is the Next One After That?

A. The VERBAL DEFENSE TACTICS INSTRUCTOR CERTIFICATION BOOT CAMP is held twice a year – usually in mid September and early February …

… this allows businesses, schools and organizations to get training in preparation for Workplace Bullying Awareness Week in February and National Anti-Bullying Week in November.

The scheduled training dates are as follows:

Scheduled Dates for 2010:

(Sorry, seats no longer available.)

… or, as an alternative you can arrange your own private training with me. I offer all the material in this training seminar to groups and organizations with 6 or more participants … plus, the agenda can be custom designed to meet your unique wants and needs (which means it will be anywhere from 3 hours to 2 days in length — you decide) …

… if you’d like more information about hiring me to do in-house verbal self defense training seminars for your group, organization or company, please feel encouraged to contact me through our contact page –  just CLICK HERE.

Q. What If I Just Want to Learn Verbal Self Defense for Myself?

A. This second 2-day seminar will give you everything you need to be a properly trained and prepared Verbal Self Defense Instructor – at the end of this second of two Verbal Defense Tactics seminars you will receive a Verbal Defense Tactics Trainer and Consultancy Certification …

… if you only want to have the ability to effectively use verbal self defense for yourself, then you should attend the first 2-day seminar before this one …

… VERBAL DEFENSE TACTICS 101 PRIMARY SKILLS TRAINING …

… however, this basic skills training seminar will not give you the skills and ability necessary to teach Verbal Self Defense to others.

(Click Here for More Info About the Primary Skills Training Course)

Q. So, Exactly What is the Verbal Defense Tactics 101: Primary Skills Training Seminar? And How Is It Different From Verbal Defense Tactics Instructor Certification Boot Camp?

A. Verbal Defense Tactics 101 is the introductory level training that I offer. It is designed as a pre-requisite to the boot camp where you get training in Verbal Self Defense basics. In it you’ll learn all the foundational material about controlling your emotional state and being able to speak up for yourself and much more …. including the NLP 6 Step Verbal Self Defense Model …

Click Here for More Information About the

Verbal Defense Tactics 101: Primary Skills Training Seminar

When is it? Since some attendees travel a long distance to attend the first seminar, the Verbal Defense Tactics 101 Seminar is offered immediately prior to the Verbal Defense Tactics Instructor Certification Boot Camp – so you can get the most comprehensive training possible in just one trip!

Q. What if I Find It’s Just Not Right For Me? I’m a Bit Concerned … Do You Offer Any Kind of Guarantee?

A. This is an excellent question! Let me reassure you that it is absolutely normal to be a bit apprehensive when you first sign up – almost everyone is! After all, this is about learning to face really difficult situations … this is about learning to defend yourself against verbally abusive people … in a public seminar no less.

You might be asking yourself … Can I do this? Will this work for me? What if I don’t get it? – and they’re all perfectly natural questions to think about … and I promise you that everyone who comes with an open mind and an open heart will learn to build upon what’s inside themselves and find the right words for them to stay mentally and emotionally safe.

Be assured, this isn’t just about standing up to bullies in this world – this is about self discovery and understanding … learning to know what’s right and wrong for YOU … learning to appropriately address the events, experiences and situations throughout your life which you feel are important … this is about learning total self care.

This will be a closed seminar where people are encouraged to grow as they learn in a fun and friendly atmosphere … you are welcome to do only what you are comfortable with – focus on getting the lessons and learnings that will work for you! I am a kind, gentle and caring facilitator … and if there are things you want information on that you are not comfortable sharing in class, I always make my self available in the evenings for people who require extra one-on-one guidance – so you can trust yourself and know you are in good hands here!

Now – with regards to a GUARANTEE … yes, I offer a major one …

If you are not 100% Fully Satisfied. I will return the …

FULL COST OF THE SEMINAR, PLUS $100

to compensate you for your valuable time.

Why?! … because I am absolutely confident not only that you are going to get something useful out of this seminar, you are going to have an fun and transformational experience along the way!

This is my promise to you … and for anyone wondering – I’ve never had a student take me up on this guarantee … however, this guarantee always remains available to anyone who registers so that you understand how completely confident I am in the training that I provide.

Q. What Does This Training Include?

A. For your seminar fees, you will receive:

• Two full days of training filled with as much information as possible regarding how, what, why and  what-if situations for teaching individuals and groups of people the skills of verbal self defense;

• Countless exercises that will help to make you both consciously competent and unconsciously competent of all the skills and abilities you learn during the seminar;

• A complete verbal self defense instructor manual filled with everything you may need to refer back to when you get home, plus extra information to help you take your skills even further;

• Full color digital copies of any and all Graphics Coaching Wall Charts produced in class, sent by email within two weeks post-seminar.

Q. Once I am a Certified Verbal Self Defense Instructor, will there be any additional expenses, such as membership fees, training material costs or additional compulsory training?

A. No. We will not charge you any additional expenses beyond the cost of the course — once you have received your certification you are encouraged to start offering Verbal Self Defense consulting, training, workshops and seminars through your own business … with no other commitments or obligations to me.

In the process of the course I will provide you with feedback from my own experience regarding working as a Verbal Self Defense Coach and Consultant — however, this is only based on my experiences …

… as a certified Verbal Self Defense Instructor you can easily charge anywhere from $150.00 – $200.00 per hour for one-on-one instruction, all the way up to $1,000.00 a day for business consulting and corporate seminars … and any profit your make are entirely yours!

Once you leave this training no other costs, expense or dues will ever be owed to us for using this information or making copies of the materials you get with the training!

Q. So, What’s The Cost of Attending?

A. Whenever you take this kind of valuable skills training it is important to look, not at what it costs … you should consider how it is VALUABLE for you.

Currently the cost of workplace bullying on businesses are growing more and more every day. In the same way, in these times of financial instability, personal long-term suffering is being inflicted upon individuals every day as more and more people lose their temper, get frustrated and become verbally abusive towards one another!

With these skills you will be free to help create more supportive and understanding working environments, making it a more pleasant and enjoyable place for both staff and customers — essentially you help to create a world to which we all want to belong!

So, what does that get you?? … to start, a more happy and satisfying life for yourself … plus the ability to give people more power to make their own lives better — by teaching them there are better ways to interact and treat one another with MORE RESPECT, MORE DIGNITY and MORE ACCEPTANCE!!!

YOUR INVESTMENT: $497.00

The fee for the Verbal Defense Tactics Instructor Certification Training seminar …

… is $497.00 (Canadian funds).

Fee Includes:

• 2 days of training (9:00 am – 5:00 pm);
• Extensive handouts;
• Any materials required within the seminar;
• Continued on-going personal support of Dr. Scott by email after you return home.

Q. This Is My Own Investment – Is There a Way I Can Make Partial Payments So It’s Easier On My Cash-Flow?

A. Absolutely, Yes! I have myself had to invest a good deal of time and money into my own training over the years and so I certainly have compassion for the cash-flow concerns of people in today’s job market … and so, as a way to help make the financial investment in your training as easy as possible. I offer a couple different payment plan options, which include letting you extend your payments beyond the completion of the actual training seminars (trusting you to fulfill your commitment).

Your Easy Payment Plan Options are:

You have the choice of one full payment or you have the option of dividing your payment into 3 or 6 micro-payments, with the first payment due upon registration and then every 30 days for the remainder of the plan.

Q. Do I Have to Take Both Seminars Together?

A. No. Someone could decide to take Verbal Defense Tactics 101: Primary Skills Training first, then follow it up with the Verbal Defense Tactics Boot Camp at another date. I choose to offer these two workshops back to back because most people who attend often travel significant distances to come (and they prefer to get as much training as they can all in one trip). However, if you are okay with making two trips, or you live in the area, then you can certainly split your workshop dates …

… but, if you only realize after the first training event begins that it is much more valuable than you expected, and you’d like to stay for the instructor’s training, space may not be available …

… if you want everything you need in order to add Verbal Self Defense Consulting and Instruction to your own business services or personal repertoire of business skills so you can start making money helping others make their own lives better I recommend that you register for these seminars back-to-back.

And There You Have It … This Course Will Be Filled with Tons of GREAT VALUE for YOU!!!

Now, here is the most important point — There is no other Verbal Self Defense training course out there offering such powerfully effective knowledge along with the straight-forward, easy-to-follow 6 Step Verbal Self Defense Model that you get from “VERBAL DEFENSE TACTICS 101: PRIMARY SKILLS TRAINING and THE INSTRUCTOR’S BOOT CAMP.”

… I’m not telling you that you can’t try to learn verbal self defense from a book or from other classes available on the internet … but these two seminars have been carefully structured to teach you, in the most efficient way possible, the most effective verbal self defense skills currently available — which will have amazingly positive effects throughout your life as well as the lives of all the people around you … and that is why I am so passionate about teaching these skills to people like you — so you too can share these fantastic lessons and learnings to others and find more joy and fulfillment in your own life. (plus you can make some extra money too!!!)

I look forward to giving you all the skills and abilities to teach students of your own as you become a true Master of Verbal Self Defense!

Respectfully,

Daniel Scott, Ph.D.

Verbal Defense Tactics Training and

Soaring Success Personal Excellence Coaching

P.S. Do you have any further questions? If so, please feel encouraged to contact me through our contact page … just CLICK HERE.

P.P.S. Please remember that there are only a limited number of seats so these workshops fill up fast! If you are serious about developing verbal self defense skills that work, then …

AS A VERBAL SELF DEFENSE INSTRUCTOR YOU CAN GIVE PEOPLE THE TOOLS TO DEAL WITH ABUSIVE GIRLFRIENDS …

“Most people don’t seem to believe that it’s possible for a woman to be the abuser in a relationship. And guys are afraid to admit it because they’re afraid of looking like “pansies”. Maybe she didn’t mean to do it, but my ex almost drove me as crazy as she was …

Everything was fine for the first few months or so … then things started going to hell. She started accusing me of cheating multiple times [...] she started slowly getting more and more controlling. Forcing me to give her the passwords to all my social networking profiles, and deleting any girl she figured I would find attractive.

Next came cutting off communication with every female friend I had. [...] She fed me lies about anyone she’d figure I showed interest in, and manipulated me into hating her enemies, making them into mine, and sometimes doing her dirty work of arguing with them, in her honor.

She had me sprung to the point where I more or less turned my back on my own friends that I knew for years, for her. I slowly turned into her lapdog. And what happened when I was a bad lapdog? Constantly getting yelled at, crying, name-calling [...] and then she’d treat me like total crap for the next two days sometimes and expect me to take it.

[...] One time I added a girl on myspace, that I thought I knew but didn’t. And then my ex saw and flipped out. She then proceeded to threaten to kill herself if I didn’t ‘love’ her. I threatened to call 911 on her and she calmed down after 2 hours of begging her not to do anything drastic. The next day, she had told everyone a one-sided version of the story to make me look like the bad guy. She flaunted the fact that everyone wanted her to dump me, and even said something that made me feel like nothing, literally.

‘You’re lucky I even want to be with you right now. I should’ve killed myself last night.’

From that moment on, I tried being the best boyfriend/lapdog I could be, but it was never enough. [...]

People kept trying to tell me that she was no good for me, but I wouldn’t hear it. She was my perfect little angel. So what if she had some anger management issues, treated me like crap whenever I’d do one little thing wrong, and did things behind my back? [...]

Everything just snowballed out of control. To the point of where she’d tell me what to wear, how she wanted my hair, what movies I could see or not, what I could watch on TV, what events I could go to, where I could go alone, etc.

She also expected me to hang out with her every other day literally. And for me to lie to my parents about where we were going and what we were doing, to the point where she would get angry with me if I didn’t feel like hanging out with her. I once hurt my neck after tripping, and could barely move it. Yet she called me and got mad at me because I didn’t want to walk 3 miles in 20 [degree] weather. When I told her, her response was ‘YOURE JUST MAKING EXCUSES. **** YOU!’ and she hung up.

Shortly after that, it became too much for me to take. [...] I planned to move on, and I felt like I could only move on if she admitted that she had done wrong, and acknowledge that she had completely broken my heart.

She later did, and admitted that she had told me a bunch of lies throughout our relationship, just to get my attention. And she was never gonna run away or commit suicide, she just needed an emotional punching bag because her life was so ‘hard’, and she needed a way to see if I truly cared about her.”

By [username] Krylancelo

Experience Project, [Online: www.ExperienceProject.com]