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</center>Yes! The question and answer series of videos created for people to Get to Know the Author of the new book, <a href="http://verbalselfdefensebook.com"><em>Verbal Self Defense in The Workplace</em></a>, are finally posted and available on our <a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/VerbalDefenseTactics">You Tube Channel</a> and on our website (on the <a href="http://verbaldefensetactics.com/about/get-to-know-the-author/">Get to Know the Author</a> page)!</p>
<p>The interview questions Dr. Scott addresses in these videos are:</p>
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<li><strong>Tell us about your book &#8230; what makes your book different from  other books in the same genre?</strong></li>
<li><strong>Who should read your book?</strong></li>
<li><strong>Why did you write your book?</strong></li>
<li><strong>What are the 3 key messages your book helps people understand?</strong></li>
<li><strong>With hindsight, what one thing do you wish you knew when you  started out writing your book?</strong></li>
<li><strong>What was the most challenging part in going from book idea to  getting published?</strong></li>
<li><strong>Who helped you along the way?</strong></li>
<li><strong>What&#8217;s the best thing about being a published author?</strong></li>
<li><strong>What&#8217;s next for you? Other books?</strong></li>
<li><strong>Is there anything else you want to tell people?</strong></li>
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<p>As a preview, here is the first video in the series &#8230;</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 21:15:55 +0000</pubDate>
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</center>Effective Verbal Self Defense require you to know your intention &#8212; it&#8217;s one of the key elements I teach in my new book (<a href="http://www.VerbalSelfDefenseBook.com" target="_self">www.VerbalSelfDefenseBook.com</a>).</p>
<p>The reason is, if you have at least an idea of what it is you want in a situation then you can figure out what you need to say. However, if you have no idea what it is that needs to change in order to feel more secure then you have no way to determine what to say or how to say it &#8230;</p>
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<p>&#8230; and remember, the important thing here is to practice, practice, PRACTICE!</p>
<p>Set intentions at random for anything &#8230; going to the store (i.e. &#8216;my intention is to get everything on my list&#8217;) &#8230; making dinner (i.e. &#8216;my intention is to feel relaxed while making dinner&#8217;) &#8230; etc. Try it whenever you get the chance &#8212; simply set an intention and think about it for a moment .. that&#8217;s it!</p>
<p>If that&#8217;s all you learn to do easily and effortlessly in any situation, no matte how stressful, then you double your chance of dealing with a situation effectively.<center><br />
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<p>Here&#8217;s a little something to help put it in perspective&#8230;</p>
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